Victim or Victor?

Author: Nico Redelinghuys
Nico has been a Reiki practitioner for more than 15 years, and teaches both Usui and Karuna Ki Reiki. In his spare time he loves to craft anything from fairies, fairy doors, beaded bracelets and more. He is also a great advocate of a clothes free world, promoting body positivity and self-love.

Victimisation vs Victimhood

It is the thoughts in our heads that make us victims. The things we say to ourselves in the darkest recesses of our mind, are the things that will play out in the bright light of day and if we do not recognise those thoughts, we will continue to manifest and play out the same scenarios.

This is not a new concept. Many esoteric teachers speak of this, and neuroscience is finding evidence in the quantum realms of its validity.

What is it that you keep telling yourself?

This month’s blog update comes to you through my YouTube channel.

Of course I have to do the obligatory “strong language” warning, thanks to my potty mouth again! But your kids can watch it – just mind my language.

Anyway, if you’d like to have a look at your beliefs I’d be all too happy to help. Drop me some comments, or phone me or email me or … anything! Let’s get those shitty beliefs out of your head and replace them with some beautiful ones!

You can also check out my psychic guidance & counselling packages on this LINK.

Also, keep an eye out for some surprises (pleasant ones, I promise!) coming in May.

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  1. Helen

    Well Done Nico

    You certainly got me thinking and I believe you may have a valid point.
    There is so much going on in my life right now and i certainly need to do a clear out / stocktake and get rid of this excess baggage.
    Will contact you 2nd week of may.

    • Nico Redelinghuys

      Helen, I am glad I could get you thinking. When we become aware of what goes on in our own minds, we can start looking at the methods available to us to bring about change.

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