Q: What happens at a Cord Cutting Ritual?

A: Nothing you can’t tell your mom.

With that out of the way, here is what you can expect. Also, booking a cord cutting ritual with me requires a little bit of preparation on your part.

But first…

What is a Cord Cutting Ritual?

To understand a cord cutting ritual, you need to understand what happens when we interact with our environment. This includes places and thing, too!

When we interact with people, places and things, we form a connection. Some connections last longer than others, depending on the situation and influences involved.

The more intimate the connection, the stronger the bond that is formed. Many clairvoyants and psychics describe this connection as a silver cord that runs between the two parties, almost like a tether, and is not influenced by time and space.

Some of these cords will sever soon after the relationship is ended, but in most cases they will remain intact until we consciously cut them.

It is not a bad thing to have these connections! Personally I have said goodbye to some friends, places and situations that were pleasant: a lovely holiday destination, or a friend who moved away unexpectedly and neither of us were diligent enough to maintain contact. It happens! These kind of connections are usually not a bother to anyone and actually makes it easier to rekindle the friendship when we reconnect.

But there are those connections that become uncomfortable. If those connections stay intact even after all other physical interactions have been broken off, it may be time to perform a psychic cord cutting.

What Happens During a Cord Cutting Ritual?

Initially I ran my cord cutting rituals as a group event. A lot of people who wanted to make bookings, were uncomfortable discussing their situation in front of strangers. Being sensitive to this aspect of the ritual, I decided to also make this available as a one-on-one service.

When you arrive, we will discuss your situation and the reason for doing the cord cutting. This helps me to understand how to approach and guide you, rather than just rushing in and cutting the cords – counselling and support forms a big part of the process. After all: we are cutting away something that has formed an aspect of your existence for a while. You are going to need some help moving forward and I am here to offer you the first few steps.

Once we have finished our discussion, I invoke Safe Space in which you will be performing the ritual.

I will be giving you some physical tools and supplies (pen, paper, scissors, candle, and so on); then I explain to you what we’ll be doing. I will then guide you through a connection exercise so that you can experience where and how the connection sits with you.

Once that is done, we perform the cut!

When the cut has been performed, I also guide you through a process that will invite healing for both you and the subject. That way, you not only heal yourself, but also allow healing for the other party without having to re-grow the cord that has just been cut.

Does it work?

Remember I told you that I had to do a cord cutting for three consecutive months for the same person? And that some connections are complex and run deep or on different levels?

So, yes: it does work. It has been working for me over and over and over again! I have been using the same method for almost twenty years.

What happens to the other party?

Well, that depends. In some instances where another person is the subject of the cord cutting, they may go frantic because their ego realises they have been cut off from you.

In one particular case, the person died a week later.

Did we kill the other person?

No.

This was an person elderly, hanging on to the last threads of a tough life. She needed forgiveness from my client and the cord cutting gave her the release she needed to transition to her next life.

In my own experience the people I performed these cord cuttings with, are still alive and still in my life. They still have a relationship with me, but the cord cuttings have allowed the relationship to heal.

Releasing our attachment to the outcome of the ritual is a vital aspect of the process. Allow the cord cutting to do its work.

A helpful tip I always offer my clients is to avoid any interaction with the subject of your cord cutting for at least 3 months! This will allow the healing to take place, and if you and the other person (or place, or situation) are meant to interact again, I can assure you the attitudes will have shifted.

Cord Cutting Rituals, the Moon and the Timing: Why?

Most of my friends know I am not a religious person, but that I do have an affinity for some of the more unconventional paths.

Paganism and the occult have played a big role in my growth during this incarnation. I have learned to use the energy of the planets, and for my cord cuttings, I rely on the phases of the moon to add power to the ritual.

When the moon is waxing (moving towards a full moon), it is a good idea to draw things to us. When the moon starts waning (growing smaller; moving towards a new moon) it is best to banish and let go.

So, you can see that the best time to do a cord cutting would be in the waning stages of the moon. That is why I like to schedule my clients within the first three days after the full moon when the moon’s energy is strongest.

There may be some who disagree with this, saying that it should be done on exactly the full moon. In the almost 20 years that I have been doing this work, my best results have been in the time just after the full moon.

What Happens After?

Once the cord cutting has been performed and you are happy with how things went down, I open up our Sacred Space.

I immediately do an energy cleanse through a Sacred Smoke Ceremony, and advise you to go home and take it easy.

Afterthoughts

“Cord cutting” sounds so … FINAL! Like you are annihilating something that on some level, still takes up sentimental space in your head.

I want to assure you that a cord cutting has been the most healing thing I have done for myself. As I said earlier in this post: it doesn’t mean it is the end; just the end of what you don’t want! You can still go back after the healing period and allow the relationship to rebuild into something different. You were aware and awake enough to recognise the toxicity in your relationship and you cut the channels that had been feeding it.

Now it is time to rebuild on YOUR terms, with full awareness of what was, and what could be.